Divorce is never easy.
But divorcing a narcissist, especially when you're rooted in a Pakistani background, can feel like walking through fire.
It’s not just painful—it’s life-altering. For some women, it’s tragically deadly.
In Pakistan, stories of violence against women often make headlines, only to be forgotten too soon.
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Acid attacks, honor killings, and domestic violence are horrifyingly real. These acts of cruelty leave scars, both seen and unseen.
Imagine the trauma of losing your face to an acid attack—an unimaginable horror that speaks volumes about the struggle of simply trying to live freely as a woman.
For me, the scars weren’t visible, but they cut just as deep. I lost my identity, my sense of self.
That’s why I created this community—a sanctuary where Pakistani women can share their struggles, find solace, and build each other up like family.
Who am I?
My name is Sadaf. I’m a 37-year-old single mother to two amazing kids, aged 10 and 12. After enduring over six years of a grueling divorce from a narcissist, I finally found freedom in 2022. But as you may know, the challenges don’t magically end when the papers are signed—especially when you’re navigating shared custody.
Though I live in Switzerland, my Pakistani heritage made the journey infinitely more complex.
I faced judgment, isolation, and a system that often felt stacked against me. It was during these dark times that I realized how vital it is to have a safe, supportive community—a place where women can share their fears and victories, seek advice, and feel seen without the weight of judgment.
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Divorce is never easy.
But divorcing a narcissist, especially when you're rooted in a Pakistani background, can feel like walking through fire.
It’s not just painful—it’s life-altering. For some women, it’s tragically deadly.
In Pakistan, stories of violence against women often make headlines, only to be forgotten too soon.
​
Acid attacks, honor killings, and domestic violence are horrifyingly real. These acts of cruelty leave scars, both seen and unseen.
Imagine the trauma of losing your face to an acid attack—an unimaginable horror that speaks volumes about the struggle of simply trying to live freely as a woman.
For me, the scars weren’t visible, but they cut just as deep. I lost my identity, my sense of self.
That’s why I created this community—a sanctuary where Pakistani women can share their struggles, find solace, and build each other up like family.
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Why I built this community?
I learned firsthand how critical it is for women to achieve emotional healing and financial independence after a divorce. But these things don’t happen in isolation.
We need each other.
We need spaces where we’re not alone in our pain or our dreams of rebuilding.
In May 2024, I took a leap and founded this community. It’s more than just a support group—it’s a movement to empower Pakistani women navigating life after divorce. Together, we share resources, offer encouragement, and celebrate every small victory on the road to freedom and independence.
This website is an extension of that mission.
Here, you’ll find tools, advice, and inspiration to help you reclaim your life and thrive.
Join us
If my story resonates with you, or if you’re looking for a circle of strong, empathetic women who truly understand, I warmly invite you to join our community.
Together, we can rise above the pain, support each other, and create brighter futures for ourselves and our children.
You’re not alone anymore.
Let’s build a new beginning—together.
With love,
Sadaf
Who am I?
My name is Sadaf. I’m a 37-year-old single mother to two amazing kids, aged 10 and 12. After enduring over six years of a grueling divorce from a narcissist, I finally found freedom in 2022. But as you may know, the challenges don’t magically end when the papers are signed—especially when you’re navigating shared custody.
Though I live in Switzerland, my Pakistani heritage made the journey infinitely more complex.
I faced judgment, isolation, and a system that often felt stacked against me. It was during these dark times that I realized how vital it is to have a safe, supportive community—a place where women can share their fears and victories, seek advice, and feel seen without the weight of judgment.